"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
We have no right to judge others. We can not make decisions for other people because they self guide their lives. The are in charge of dictating their own outcome and deciding what is to come of our lives. If they make a decision that we are not necessarily fond of or not for, we must bite our tongue and allow them to live out their decision on.
Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
The big secret of dealing with people is that you have to be respectful to them especially if you do not consent with them often or know them. appreciating something or someone is being thankful. You will soon realize that the more that you appreciate, the happier you will be. Spending your time building up hatred and being mad at the world will consume your life. With hatred comes loneliness and sadness. Loneliness can kill a man, make them do things that they never thought they could do.
Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."
What this means is that when someone gets inspiration on learning about others has ideal knowledge about them and having people around them coming on as friendly. but when one stays of by themselves and no interest on others they will be always alone. Me myself have always been a person that come on shy but as some points starts to talk with those I dont know because at the end of the day i love getting to know knew people its very delightful to have strangers at that moment later on become friend of some sort or just people you know.Understanding the other person and what they want, hope for, desire – what motivates them – is key. Another person sees how what you’re asking ties into what’s most important to them then they’re likely to tackle it with more enthusiasm and more likely follow through.
very interesting on the first habit :)
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